prepare for a boudoir session

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Boudoir experiences are all about getting pampered, self-empowerment, and discovering a fresh perspective of yourself. It's both exciting and pushes you out of your comfort zone all at the same time. ... But aren't all the greatest things in life? I'm here to provide you with comprehensive guidance on what to prepare for your boudoir session, as well as a handy checklist for your boudoir essentials.

Wardrobe Selection
Selecting the perfect outfits can be quite a task. Feel free to bring along 2-3 of your favorite options, and let your photographer assist in choosing the ones that will shine brightest in your photographs.

Accessories
When it comes to accessories, simplicity often works wonders. Think about incorporating minimalist jewelry, knee-high socks, oversized sweaters, a button-down shirt, a veil, a robe, and any other accessories that tickle your fancy. Don't forget heels!

Moisturize
Prior to your session, it's always a good idea to moisturize. Don't forget to pack your preferred lotion to ensure you feel utterly comfortable in your own skin.

Hydration and Light Snacks
If you're anything like me, those hunger pangs can hit you hard. A day of pampering with hair and makeup, accompanied by some refreshing mimosas, might leave you feeling a tad peckish. It's a smart idea to have some granola bars or fresh fruit on hand to keep those hunger pangs at bay!

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Preparing for Your Boudoir Experience

4-6 weeks in Advance

Explore Your Ideal Boudoir Attire
Let your imagination run wild as you start envisioning your perfect boudoir outfits. Raid your own wardrobe for those beloved pieces and seek inspiration from magazines and admired brands.

A Shopping Adventure Awaits
Why not embark on a shopping journey with a close friend? Invite a girlfriend to accompany you and help you discover pieces that not only accentuate your appearance but also make you feel fantastic. Embrace the opportunity to step outside your comfort zone, for you may discover a newfound love for a unique fashion item! Or if shopping from the comfort of your own home is your jam (like me) I've created a curated list of my absolute favorites on Amazon, check them out HERE.

Book your Make up and Hair Artist
Give yourself the full experience with a professional make up and hair artist. We've had the privilege of working with many wonderful artist over the years and are happy to send you our list of recommendations. We recommend leaving an hour "fluff" time in between make up and hair and your session for all the unexpected things that inevitably happen.

Curate Your Top 3-5 Ensembles
Begin the process of refining your outfit choices by selecting 3-5 of your most cherished ensembles. Let your genuine personality shine through in your selections.

Beyond the Photography Session
Consider how you wish to preserve your cherished boudoir photos. In my opinion, creating an album, magazine or wall art is the ideal method to showcase your stunning boudoir images!

Preparing for Your Boudoir Experience

3-5 Days Before Your Session

Hair Removal and Skin Care
Perform hair removal (wax or shave) and ensure your skin is well moisturized.

Skip Spray Tans or Tanning Lotions
Refrain from using spray tans or tanning lotions. These products, despite their natural appearance, can result in an undesirable orange hue that cannot be corrected in post-processing.

Hydration is Key
Stay well-hydrated by drinking plenty of water to keep your skin at its best.

Lingerie Preparation
Remove all pricing and sizing tags from your lingerie, including any permanent tags.

Final Wardrobe Choices
Make your final selections for 2-3 outfits that you'll be wearing during the session.

Preparing for Your Boudoir Experience

1-2 Days Before Your Session

Treat Yourself to a New Manicure
Indulge in a fresh manicure but opt for neutral tones rather than vibrant colors for a timeless look.

Stay Hydrated, Skip the Alcohol
Prioritize hydration by avoiding alcohol and drinking plenty of water to keep your skin glowing.

Nourish Your Skin
Don't forget to moisturize your skin for a radiant complexion.

Organize Your Boudoir Essentials
Prepare your boudoir bag the evening before to ensure you have all the essentials in place.

Final Check and Relaxation
Give your checklist a final review, then unwind and look forward to a pampering experience!

Preparing for Your Boudoir Experience

Day of Your Session

Start with a Fresh, Moisturized Face
Arrive to your make up and hair appointment with a clean and well-moisturized face.

Pamper Your Skin
Remember to moisturize your entire body for a glowing look.

Choose Comfortable Attire
Opt for loose-fitting clothing and undergarments to prevent skin impressions.

Light, Satisfying Meal
Have a light meal to ensure you're comfortable but not feeling bloated.

Arrive Early and Relaxed
Allow ample time to arrive a few minutes ahead of your session, so you can feel relaxed and fully ready to rock your boudoir experience!