prepare for a boudoir session
How to...
First of all, congrats on taking the leap and booking your boudoir photography session! It's going to be fun, an amazing experience, and super empowering for you. Wardrobe is an essential part of your boudoir session, using proper wardrobe that is not only beautiful but that flatters your body is just one of the many ways we ensure your session is a success. It doesn't have to be complicated. I am a believer in stripping down and keeping it basic. Less is more. In fact, we really love doing our 'implied nudes' in the sheets and highly recommend you give it a try!
Most of our clients also use our fantastic client wardrobe, and some opt to shop and bring their own hand selected pieces. Here is my cheat sheet for you to shop and know what to bring for your session. Hope it helps you! Feel free to reach out with questions any time so I can help you through this part of the process.
Arrive to the studio for your session in loose clothing, no socks.
Wardrobe Selection
Bring along a minimum of 2 of your favorite outfits, and let us assist in choosing the ones that will shine brightest in your photographs.
Bring a nude and a black seamless thong or G-string in the chance you want to wear something from our studio wardrobe. A solid or embroidered black bra is also a great staple.
Accessories
When it comes to accessories, simplicity often works wonders. Think about incorporating minimalist jewelry, knee-high socks, oversized sweaters, a button-down shirt, a veil, a robe, and any other accessories that tickle your fancy. Don't forget heels!
Moisturize
Prior to your session, it's always a good idea to moisturize. Don't forget to pack your preferred lotion to ensure you feel utterly comfortable in your own skin.
Hydration and Light Snacks
If you're anything like me, those hunger pangs can hit you hard. A day of pampering with hair and makeup, accompanied by some refreshing mimosas, might leave you feeling a tad peckish. It's a smart idea to have some granola bars or fresh fruit on hand to keep those hunger pangs at bay! If you are concerned about bloating bone broth is a great choice day of.
Boudoir Bag Checklist:
Do NOT Bring:
- Props without prior approval. Boudoir is not pinup photography, and props can be a distraction from our focus (YOU!)
- Heavily worn, tattered, soiled, or scuffed items.
- Items that do not fit (too big, too small).
- Sex toys (really...do I need to say this?!).
Preparing for Your Boudoir Experience
2-6 weeks in Advance
Hair
If you need to get your roots or color touched up, make sure you plan for adequate time before your session in case of anything going wrong and needing to be fixed. Hair color is a chemical and accidents happen. We want you to have enough time before your shoot to get accidents corrected so you don't have to pay a rescheduling fee. We don't advise trying a new haircut, bangs, or color prior to your session.
Explore Your Ideal Boudoir Attire
Let your imagination run wild as you start envisioning your perfect boudoir outfits. Raid your own wardrobe for those beloved pieces and seek inspiration from magazines and admired brands.
A Shopping Adventure Awaits
Why not embark on a shopping journey with a close friend? Invite a girlfriend to accompany you and help you discover pieces that not only accentuate your appearance but also make you feel fantastic. Embrace the opportunity to step outside your comfort zone, for you may discover a newfound love for a unique fashion item! Or if shopping from the comfort of your own home is your jam (like me) I've created a curated list of my absolute favorites on Amazon, check them out below.
As well as a few of our favorite stores:
I tried to put them in order from high end to budget friendly. *indicates that they carry a wide variety of Plus Size Lingerie. If you find this not to be true please notify me as stores are constantly changing. Also if you have a favorite not listed - please let me know, I'm always looking for more options.
The best Lingerie for Boudoir
On Amazon!
Preparing for Your Boudoir Experience
3-5 Days Before Your Session
Hair Removal
(If desired) Natural is totally fine with us, shaving or waxing is also perfectly acceptable. However, trying something new can sometimes cause a reaction like ingrown hairs or red rash bumps. Make sure you are experimenting well before your session if you're trying something new so you can show up and not worry about your nether-regions.
Skip Spray Tans or Tanning Lotions
Refrain from using spray tans or tanning lotions. These products, despite their natural appearance, can result in an undesirable orange hue that cannot be corrected in post-processing.
Nails
Natural nails are perfectly fine for your photoshoot, as long as they are well maintained and clean. If you'd like to get a mani/pedi or do it yourself, we advise for soft, neutral, or gem tones colors. Trendy shapes and bedazzles are fun, just make sure it's something you'll still love in 10-20 years after the style passes. Pictures are forever!
Hydration is Key
Drink lots of water to keep your skin healthy, plump, and clear. Exfoliate frequently, especially 2-3 days before your shoot (NOT the night before!). Avoid trying any new skincare products or changing your routine right before your session. Hydration and moisturization are the most important steps in healthy skin! Please avoid sun exposure as much as possible. Do not worry about looking "pasty" or "ashy" in your photos, I would rather add a subtle warm glow than have you show up with a sunburn or a spray tan.
Lingerie Preparation
Remove all pricing and sizing tags from your lingerie, including any permanent tags.
Final Wardrobe Choices
Make your final selections for 2-3 outfits that you'll be wearing during the session. If you need help - bring them all we'll help narrow them down
Preparing for Your Boudoir Experience
1-2 Days Before Your Session
Treat Yourself to a New Manicure
Indulge in a fresh manicure but opt for neutral tones rather than vibrant colors for a timeless look.
Stay Hydrated, Skip the Alcohol
Prioritize hydration by avoiding alcohol and drinking plenty of water to keep your skin glowing.
Nourish Your Skin
Don't forget to moisturize your skin for a radiant complexion.
Organize Your Boudoir Essentials
Prepare your boudoir bag the evening before to ensure you have all the essentials in place.
Final Check and Relaxation
Give your checklist a final review, then unwind and look forward to a pampering experience!
Charlotte Studio
1325 Pecan Ave
Charlotte NC
You can park behind me right next to the house or on the street
Preparing for Your Boudoir Experience
Day of Your Session
Start with a Fresh, Moisturized Face
Arrive to your make up and hair appointment with a clean and well-moisturized face and dry clean hair.
Pamper Your Skin
Remember to moisturize your entire body for a glowing look.
Choose Comfortable Attire
Opt for loose-fitting clothing and undergarments to prevent skin impressions and no socks.
Light, Satisfying Meal
Have a light meal to ensure you're comfortable but not feeling bloated. Bone broth is a great choice
Arrive on time and Relaxed
Allow ample time to arrive, so you can feel relaxed and fully ready to rock your boudoir experience!
Winston Studio
4620 Meetin house Ln
Clemmons NC
Please park in the street in front of our house and come to the front door
